Hold On, Pain Ends.
We should never let others try and ashame us for our “flaws”. That cracks we have inside of us, and that scars that sadly some of you have outside too. Because it is natural to have insecurities. Even the most confident people have insecurities. And that’s something normal. It’s nothing weird, or bad, It’s just the opposite. It’s how we teach ourselves that we want to be better, and stronger. We all have insecurities, breaking points, and something broken inside of us. But without that vulnerabilities, that cracks, that open windows that expose ourselves to the whole world, light could never find a way in. We all need to break and lose ourselves at some point, so we can learn to appreciate the light when it comes. Because yes, everything gets better. The pain ends up disappearing when you chose to believe in yourself. Even in the details you don’t see, such as it is the act of keeping yourself alive day after day, you’re believing in yourself. You’re fighting for an opportunity for everything to get better. And yeah, I can promise you, that everything gets better. Always. And even if most of you feel like there’s no one who could understand you, nobody who wants to listen to you, nobody who looks closely to see you’re not okay, and that you have something broken inside, as we all do, I promise you there’s people like that. As long as I’m in this world, there will be a person like that. A person who will try and understand, listen, and push you forward to make you find hope inside of yourself, And when you get outside of all of this, that will no longer be a single person, we will be a whole lot.
We can be a change if we want to be it. But we have to start by being the change in ourselves. With loving, appreciating ourselves, before we search for someone else to do it. Because NOBODY, ever, will love you more or better than how you can love yourself.
Hello! Doing great as always ^^ Even if I’m a little bit tired, ‘cause I didn’t sleep tonight and I had to draw/tattoo for 6 hours straight, so my back hurts as fuck haha. But everything’s okay. Thanks for asking :)
How’re you doing btw?
Why do you keep saying that “Some random band saved your life”? Why can’t you love yourself enough to admit that YOU, without a doubt, were the one who saved yourself? It’s okay, a band probably inspired you so much, but the one who said “I’m gonna keep on living, ‘case I wanna live”, was you. They threw the message, but you catched it. The most important and difficult part, was done by you.
Nobody saved you, you saved yourself. And that’s more than incredible to start looking at you from a better and more positive perspective from now on. And without a doubt, I’m so glad for all of you who saved yourselves, ‘cause that’s completely awesome and amazing for me.
A message to everyone struggling with depression, suicidal thoughts, self-harm, or any kind of thinking/acting negative and destructing towards themselves.
Never EVER fail and think that life wasn’t made for everyone. If you were born, it’s because you’re capable enough of living, I promise. Things aren’t written on stone. Pain sooner or later disappears if hope remains. Just in case nobody told to you yet, I’ll do it: Everything’s gonna be okay. Even if you can’t believe it, everything will get better. I just want to ask you for two things: Never give up on yourself. Never. Never give up on life. Because even if you think you’re worthless, you’re awful and you don’t have any kind of mission in life, you know what? There’s no one else like you. There’s absolutely nobody else in the whole world like you. And that alone already makes you beautiful and special enough. So, NEVER stop fighting, because you don’t deserve that.
The other thing I want to ask you for is that when you succesfully cross the pond, that pond that in the good days looks like a river and daily looks like a huge ocean, do the same thing I’m doing right now. Someday you’ll be in the same side I am, everything will be part of the past, but please, don’t just leave. Stay on the shore of the other side of the ocean welcoming those brave enough to cross the whole ocean swiming, and cheering up and keeping afloat those who’re stuck in the middle, thinking about just letting go and sinking. Because NOBODY, it doesn’t matter who that person is, it doesn’t matter what that person done, deserves to live that way.
We need to start talking about depression & suicide. Because every single day, every single fucking minute, they’re a bigger and more usual problem in our society, and we can’t just ignore it. I’m tired of seeing gorgeous women disrespecting themselves and saying they are and look horrible. Of seeing amazing guys saying that they’re worthless and they would be better off dead. I’m SICK of seeing more and more people I appreciate and really close people to me going through that fucking hell. And the only way to try to fix that, is trying to be the change. Because a person let alone can just change a little bit, but if all the people that first person helped work together, the change can be real.
As for myself, I’m gonna try and make that not a single day goes by that I wasn’t a positive influence in the life of someone who needed it.
It’s amazing that people will see a kid yelled at or manhandled by a parent and say “It’s not my business, you can’t tell someone how to raise their kid” but if someone lets their son wear a dress it’s a public discussion.
THIS IS VERY RELEVANT